All I can do is laugh because 1st of all this girl came a whole 6 days late when I was convinced she was gonna come early.
I tried EVERYTHING to get her out but it was a no from Kassie, she had to come fashionably late and a Scorpio.
What’s really weird is that our 1st scan that showed she was a sticky one they estimated 5th Nov based on my LMP and on our 12w scan they said nope she’s a whole week ahead because of measurements when really she was just a fatty.
Anyways back to the birth story.
As most of you know I wanted a homebirth.
I am super proud tbh because I did get my homebirth experience plus a transfer to the hospital which ended up in an emergency c section lol.
So we went for a Nando’s just the 3 of us and when I got home my waters started leaking I literally screamed in happiness knowing things are finally starting so my contractions started at 6pm they were alright as I was kinda use to them as had been having them for about 2 weeks prior, my Mum decided to come and collect Ethan as she said this baby is coming today.
We were quiet calm listening to my birth playlist, I was cleaning the house lol typical me, tried to watch some TV but couldn’t really concentrate as things were picking up.
The contractions started getting close together about every 3-5mins so we called our Midwife’s round they done all the checks on the baby’s heart rate and my blood pressure everything seemed perfect, so they left me too it as I was coping well and didn’t want to do an examination so it made me focus on how many cm I was, they decided to tell me to try get some sleep and they will come back in the morning.
After they left James set up the living room for me to try lie down and I was like this is the real thing I know I ain’t gonna be able to sleep but I tried anyways but instead once the Midwife’s left and it was just me and James things got kinda real intense in about an hr they contractions were lasting about a min long and weren’t talking as much just preparing for the next one to come, so we called the Midwife’s back they done an examination and I was 5cm so they decided they were going to stay with me till this baby arrived, I was just glad I was finally gonna have this baby.
So I laboured at home it was amazing the atmosphere was perfect, I was calm and felt safe and In control with my breathing, I tried many different positions, I was in the bath, sat on the toilet, but I couldn’t shift the insane back ache I was getting so for the last hour at home I was on the gas and air which made me feel dizzy and light headed to I had to try something, The Midwife’s had to keep applying pressure where we later find out her head was pushing.
Fast forward 4hr and a half from after the Midwife’s arrive we did another examination to find out I was only 6cm.
That was it for me I demanded I wanted to go to the hospital they suggested to break my waters and see how things play out I was like nope hospital lol, I got dressed as fast as I could before the next contractions was gonna take place as I could feel her head shifting around trying to find a good position but she kept getting locked up in my back.
Ambulance arrive in like 5mins and we were at the hospital in like 3mins we arrived at 6am.
As soon as we got to the room I BEGGED the doctors for a c section as I didn’t wanna be playing games to end up in a c section later but he refused and said both me and the baby are healthy so their was no need but I should try the epidural and see how things go once I can’t feel the pain anymore.
OMG the most beautiful thing EVER all my back pain was gone in a blink, I could talk & smile again, I was able to sleep a bit, still had them dam shakes lol can’t have it all.
They done an examination I was 8cm then 9cm by 10am I was in shock thinking omg I might actually having this baby normally I only have 1 more cm to go.
The doctors come back and do another examination and say the baby is posterior position so her face was up and her back was on my back hence why the intensity in my back during the contractions, so all the docs had a chat and come back in the room and say we feel it’s best for you to have a c section as we feel the baby MAY go into stress.
My Midwife’s were supportive of me trying to wait it out and push but doctors orders aye.
I said to them why didn’t you just give me the c section when I came in asking for it? The woman replied we’re not mystic meg lol I said well I must have been because I knew I’d end up in theatre would have been lovely to have this baby 6hrs ago.
I’m crying because I’m mad and this c section is kinda unnecessary but hey ho I sign the papers and off we go.
I’m in theatre now James is by my side I’m just waiting to hear this baby cry when she arrives.
The surgeons are doing their thing you can hear them say the previous c section scar is super thick and they have to keep cutting so I was never at risk of a rupture because my last scar had healed over very strong and well, so it’s taking a bit of time, I’m thinking rahhh what’s taking them so long I feel one massive push and a tug my breathe is literally taken away and everyone is saying congratulations you have one really big baby how did you hide her in there, then we hear her CRY omg I will never forget that sound! The most beautiful sound, the moment your waiting for the whole pregnancy.
My Midwife’s were present the whole time and knew I still wanted delayed cord clamping so they done that for me and I can still hear her cry and that’s all I’m focusing on, they ask James to cut her cord and then they bring her straight over to me as soon as they put her on me she stopped crying OMG I just died inside by how perfect she was even with her cone head lol.
In the recovery ward I got to have that skin to skin I’ve always dreamed of it was the most warm and empowered I’d ever felt, and I got to see my placenta, all part of the plan. We finally had our baby safe and sound where her big brother saw her not long after.
It was perfect the whole experience my labour was perfect my partner James was perfect our family of 4 just perfect.
Kassie Aminata Mary Granger
Born 5th November 2018
Time: 12:04
Weight: 8lbs 4
Adama xx